RESPECT YOUR PARENTS IN THEIR OLD AGE – HEART TOUCHING STORY

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, “What is this?” The Son replied “It is a crow”. After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, “What is this?” The Son said “Father, I have just now told you “It’s a crow”. After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?”

At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son’s tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. “It’s a crow, a crow”.A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, “What is this?”

This time the Son shouted at his Father, “Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times ‘IT IS A CROW’. Are you not able to understand this?”

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-

“Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child”.

While the little child asked him 23 times “What is this”, the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So..

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, “I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.

They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today”. Say a prayer to God, “I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

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10 IMPORTANT WARNING SIGNS OF OVARIAN CANCER – THE SILENT KILLER!

Ovarian cancer is also known as “silent killer” because the symptoms are subtle and look like common symptoms of menstruation. This silent killer is the most deadly for women.

According to American Cancer Study only 20-30% of women with the late stage of ovarian cancer will be alive five years later. From 10 women with ovarian cancer only two or three will survive this killer.

There is still no right screening test that will detect ovarian cancer at early stages. It is found at a late stage because there are only several symptoms that can show that something is not right.

Women feel symptoms similar to menstrual or bowel sluggishness but actually is mild congestion in the pelvis or lower abdominal bloating.With the age, the risk of ovarian cancer can increase. This cancer death rate is the highest in women than any other cancer.

So that’s why you should never ignore all suspicious symptoms that last more than two weeks. Visit your doctor and do not accept if they say that you have an inflammatory bowel syndrome or digestive problems, or your symptoms are normal menstrual symptoms.

Ask for a meticulous and thorough exam.The right way is to do a manual pelvic exam and transvaginal pelvic ultrasound. Also, you can check your blood including CA 125 and HE4.Try to seek for a gynecologic specialist if it is possible.

There are doctors specialized for women cancer (gynecologic oncologist and gynecologic oncology surgeons).According to researchers from the Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, women with a family history of breast, colorectal or ovarian cancers are at higher risk.

These women should take common exams including pelvic exam with ultrasound and CA 125 blood test.Below you can read the symptoms which are common for ovarian cancer and also for many other diseases. Characteristic for the cancer is the symptom persistence.

That’s why, if the symptoms are persistent more than two weeks, it is recommended to visit a doctor.Maybe you will have only one symptom but it can be a sign that can save your life.

10 warning signs of ovarian cancer

• Pelvic discomfort and pain ; • Pressure, fullness and bloating ;

• Increased urination frequency ;

• Fatigue ;

• Pain with sexual activity ;

• Indigestion or persistent gas ;

• Pain in the lower back ;

• Constipation ;

• Appetite loss or feeling full after eating ;

• Increase of your stomach size